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[Appendix:Variations of "dame"]
** English
*** Noun
[en-noun]
1. [en] The titular prefix given to a female knight
**** Usage notes
- The title "Dame" is used with the knight's given or full name, but not her family name. If Jane Smith is knighted, she is known as Dame Jane Smith or Dame Jane, never Dame Smith, and she is correctly called Dame Jane wherever she would formerly have been called Ms./Mrs./Miss Smith. - "Dame" is only used for a woman who holds a knighthood or baronetcy in her own right. The wife of a male knight is styled Lady with her surname.
**** Coordinate terms
- [en] [list:titles/en]
**** Translations
[titular prefix given to a female]
- Chinese: - Irish: [ga] - Maori: [mi] - Marathi: [mr] [trans-bottom]
*** Anagrams
- [en]
** German
*** Etymology
From [de], from [de]. Cognate with [en].
*** Pronunciation
- [de] - [de] - [de]
*** Noun
[f]
1. lady [woman of good breeding and manners] 2. lady ; madam [polite term to refer to any woman] 3. [de] queen 4. [de] king 5. [de] Dame
**** Usage notes
Concerning the use of the word as a polite term for any woman, note the following tendencies:
- It is common to refer to a woman as _Dame_ when one speaks of her in her presence. [de] might even be slightly impolite in such a context. _Ich glaube, die DAME war vor mir dran._ — “I think this LADY was in line before me.”
- [de] used as a general term of address (“die Dame!” – _madam!_ ) marks a consciously polite way of speaking, most often heard from waiters, shop assistants, etc. Note that in this case the verb may be in the third-person plural: [de] (though [de] is equally possible). [de] is also consciously polite when speaking about someone who is not present. In popular speech, it may be used to refer to an elderly woman but rarely to a young or middle-aged one. - _Dame_ is common in some specific contexts, such as ballroom dancing.
**** Declension
[f]
**** Derived terms
- [de] - [de]
**** See also
[table:chess pieces/de]
*** Noun
[f.sg]<br/>[n.sg]
1. [de] draughts ; checkers
**** Usage notes
- The word rarely ever appears with articles, determiners, or adjectives. When it does, some speakers may construe it as feminine, others as neuter. In formal style, [de] is preferable in such contexts.
**** Derived terms
- [de]
**** Descendants
- [csb]
*** Further reading
- [R:de:DWDS] - [Dame_Frau_Brettspiel_Spielfigur] - [Dame_Titel_Titeltraegerin] - [R:de:UniLeipzig] - [lang=de] [de]